I've gone quiet on most social media platforms this week. I'm feeling as though there's not much for me to add to the conversation on what's happening in our country, the border, the president, the government, the divisiveness. 

Times like this, it feels frivolous to talk about anything else. It feels as though if I turn to look away, I'm ignoring what is happening. And if I'm not speaking, how will anyone know where I stand? 

But, in order to not go numb, we need to continue with our work, whatever that may be. We must continue the work of keeping ourselves grounded, and informed, and mentally healthy in order to continue to process, to find ways to help, to be useful. It's a tricky thing to balance, and something I'm not sure any of us know how to accomplish. 

What I do know is this:

We are capable of doing more than one thing at a time, and we are capable of feeling more than one thing at a time, as well. We can be horrified, stricken, and disgusted by policies and the hypocrisy our leaders, and still find joy in our children. We can be saddened by the separations of families, and still find time to read a good book and smile at the jokes. We can frustrated and maddened by the institutional racism that plagues our country, and still take a peaceful walk on the beach and marvel at the ebb and flow of the sea. 

And that fact, that we contain multitudes of layers and feelings and joys and pains, that makes us human, and as long as we remember that each person on this planet is, in fact, human... maybe we'll have a chance after all. 

But for now, I encourage you - as I'm encouraging myself - to write on. To create. To feel empowered to do your work, to inspire and champion others work as well. We need words. We need beauty, the pretty and the messy. We need sincerity and truth and humanity. Connection. And with art, in all it's forms, we can find those very things. 

So keep writing. Keep creating. It matters.


  1. I love you. And thank you for this. I feel we have to continue always to being hope and joy to the world ... And to do what brings peace to our souls

  2. Wonderful post. I'm like you, maybe that's the introvert way, to go silent on social media in these times. It doesn't feel like my voice does much but add to the clamor. I try to make my voice matter though, to my elected leaders. It seems more important to let them know--who might be able to do something, than all my social media peers know were I stand. But anyway, it does feel frivolous to talk about anything else when such things are happening, which of course are really happening all the time, sadly.

  3. when I get frustrated with news I tend to turtle shell myself, close the apps and go inward. I peek out once in a while to see if anything is different (it isn't). I try to surround myself with beauty and calmness.


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