Thursday, December 8, 2016

how to be kind to yourself in this season...



find quiet
layer on the blankets
binge watch your favorite show
holiday themed or not
enjoy endless warm drinks
cup the mug and feel the heat transfer
feel it come alive in your hands
read aloud
to yourself, a pet, a loved one
feel the words on your tongue
and how they long to be savored
slow
change traditions to bring joy
save traditions to bring joy
throw out traditions to bring joy
bring joy
feel sorrow as it comes - it will
stand outside in the frigid air
 and watch your breath swirl around you
listen for sleigh bells
remember there is a season for everything
take a bath
let the steam surround you
feel the pull of water over and under the body 
as the tub drains
linger over dinner
over dishes
over life
share your expectations
if you have them
but try not to have too many
don't wallow in 'why didn't they'
ask 'can you?'
listen to your body
as it tells you to rest
allow yourself your feelings
honor what rises
what swells
what calls for attention
find space in the cracks
find joy in the sorrow
find quiet
and savor

4 comments:

  1. I'll consider this an order. A lovely one at that. xo

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  2. this is lovely and I love how you are focused on joy in this season :)

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  3. This is lovely and so what I needed, Corinne. This can be a difficult time of year for me, I seem to feel emotions more keenly and a lingering sadness. To be reminded of the importance of being grounded and mindful of all that is good is a blessing. Thank you.

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  4. Ooh I love love love this 💚 especially this wee chunk which I'm going to dwell on for inspiration:
    change traditions to bring joy
    save traditions to bring joy
    throw out traditions to bring joy
    bring joy
    feel sorrow as it comes - it will
    stand outside in the frigid air

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